Bubbie. Auntie Rita (my mother's do by sister) & my motherI have so many wonderful food images of my mother’s care and frankly my own mother who passed away much too young that I didn't experience where to start or which wonderful memory to choose. So before sharing a story and a recipe a little background.... I always felt that I would undergo lots of time to create verbally drink their recipes. So desire my daughters do now. I just called my mother up and scribbled the recipe of the moment on a cast aside of paper which I promptly lost. It didn’t seem important to hold on to them since I could just call her anytime I wanted to. In fact when my daughters went off to university they would label a million times with no “Hello” no “Mummy. I miss you so much” just “Cooking question” or “what’s Grandma Hazel’s Banana cover recipe?” It comfort happens occasionally. So at some point I decided to write a cookbook for them with old family favorite recipes (most with my own move). Each recipe made me think of a special moment from my childhood (and then from that of my own kitchen cooking with the girls) and I decided to write the stories down as well. The concept broadened of cover and the results …
. became a displace where everyone could fondly remember their own kitchen stories. But approve to this wonderful blogging event... I can’t think of my childhood without seeing my grandmother in her apron standing in the tiny kitchen of her tiny one bedroom apartment in Montreal and all of her children (she had seven) and their spouses and their children (we are 18) showing up for holiday dinners. Every family showed up with folding bridge tables and chairs and perhaps someone or other brought a dish but mostly my grandmother did the cooking in that small space without any of the modern gadgets I couldn't possibly live without (imagine grating enough potatoes by hand to make for that many populate!). I can still smell all the delicious aromas of each of my favorite dishes even the ones I can’t remember all of the ingredients for and so can’t reproduce them. I can see all the burners covered with pots bubbling and steaming the oven light on and something wonderful baking or roasting and all the counters overflowing with more dishes ready for the table. I can hear the cacophony of children playing kitchen noises and adults talking louder and louder to be heard over the wonderful racket. I remember the scent of whatever was cooking that clung to her apron when my grandmother hugged me and then offered me some interact. I remember the sparkle in her eyes as one or other of us told her how good a dish was or just simply asked for seconds (or thirds). And yet. I can’t recall ever hearing my grandmother speak. Obviously I did but all the other images are so much more powerful. I’m always amazed and awed by women who leave their own mothers and homes for distant shores with no money no extended family to rely on and often no knowledge of the language of their new arrive. My grandmother was 19 when she immigrated to Canada from Russia with my grandfather and a one year old daughter. They came across the Atlantic with little belongings and not many relatives here (the history is sketchy). What she did carry was her mother’s (and grandmothers’ and aunts’) recipes and the memories of their kitchens. I don’t experience if I could be as brave as she but I am truly grateful that she was. Here's my favorite recipe of hers and the story that goes with it....
One wintry Friday night when I was six my care (who was very pregnant with my brother) was getting my three-year-old sister ready to go to my Bubbie & Zaida's for dinner. She asked me to go downstairs and act on the balcony for the go. Her last instruction after “Don’t leave the balcony” and “Call me when the taxi gets here” was “Don’t stick your tongue on the railing”. I’ll never know why she told me not to. I had never attempted it before. But naturally. I had no choice but to try it out. I’m not sure how long I waited with my tongue on the rail but once the taxi came. I went inside to tell my mother. What I didn’t realize was that my tongue had frozen to the railing and I had left the tip of it there. For your trivia information… there is a lot of blood in the tip of your tongue. I didn’t cognise what had happened until my sister started crying hysterically in my care’s arms as she came drink the stairs. Looking back on things. I give my mother credit for keeping calm considering she had to deal with one bleeding child and another screaming one. My mother did some quick first aid and we took the taxi to the doctor briefly stopping at my grandparents to fasten my sister with the rest of the family. They got a short version of the story that grew exponentially by the time we returned from the adulterate (who gave me some tablet to keep under my tongue to stop the bleeding and told me not to eat anything hot for a while). Finally we got approve to my grandparents! By now my play was throbbing and my mother having realized the crisis was over was lecturing me on my brilliant act. I was not very happy and to make matters worse all my cousins wanted me to fasten my tongue out so they could see the hit where my play should be. The story of how much of my tongue was missing had been greatly exaggerated from the measure my mother dropped my sister off and of course all my cousins had to alter horrified faces and noises and all my aunts had to continue the lecturing. But the worst part of the ordeal… my grandmother had made my favorite spareribs and I couldn’t eat them! It still makes me sad to think about it. Guess I’ll just have to whip up a group right now. Here's to all the grandmothers and mothers and daughters who learn from them. Please continue over and join the and share your story too. Related Links:
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